Many men (and women) use escorts for their combination of professionality and convenience. Some people just want escorts to have a companion for wining and dining. Others want them just for sex. Many people want a bit of both. Whatever your reason for using an escort, you’ll get the best experience with them by treating them the right way. Here are some tips.
Do your research before you pick an escort
Never pick an escort based purely on photos. Always read the text which goes along with them. If you don’t understand any of the terms in the advert, then do a search on the term “+ sex” or something similar. This should bring the right results to the top of the page. Otherwise, you could end up very confused. For example, when an escort says “CIM” she’s not talking about marketing.
If you’re interested in hiring an escort for sex, then the term you want to see is GFE. This stands for “Girlfriend Experience” and basically means doing anything someone would do with their girlfriend. This includes having sex. If you fancy something an escort doesn’t explicitly offer, you can ask about it but be prepared to be told it’s off the menu.
Be ready to communicate
You can expect your initial contact with your escort to be screening questions. This will be her way of making sure that you’re legitimate and that she’s safe meeting you. Then she’ll want to know what it is you actually want. This means both the logistics (when and where you’re going to meet and for how long) and what sort of service you want to book.
Assume you’ll be wearing a condom
Escorts set their own rules, and most will insist on using condoms, but if you wish to take things one step further and make safe sex even safer you could use PrEP which prevents the transmission of HIV. Some people hate condoms so having some form of protection is better than none at all. One last tip is to always buy PrEP from a UK pharmacy where treatments are regulated and controlled.
Check what the payment terms are
Once you’ve agreed on a fee, check how and when you pay. You’ll probably be asked to put down a deposit and then pay the balance on the day. Some escorts, however, may ask for full payment upfront and others may be happy for you just to pay on the day.
Make sure you’re clear about what payment methods your escort can take at what point. For example, many escorts can take online payments for a deposit. They may, however, ask for cash on the date. Even if they don’t, you might want to take cash with you. That way you’re covered if there’s an issue with your online banking.
Always be clean
You don’t know what the day is going to have in store for you, so make sure you give yourself time to have a shower before your date. You might also want to think about changing your clothes.
Make sure you remember to think about your breath too, especially if you smoke. Even if you don’t, food odors aren’t necessarily attractive. With that in mind, if you’re planning on going out for a meal, or even just a drink, take some breath mints with you.
Respect your escort’s time
Your escort is working. She may love her job but she’s still working. This means that if you’re late for your meeting, you still pay from the point you were supposed to meet. It’s also appreciated if you call and tell your escort that you’ll be late. Similarly, you pay up to the time you booked even if something comes up and you need to leave early.
If you’re not sure how long you’ll have then the most respectful approach is to book and pay for an extended date. Then, if you have to cancel all or part of it, your escort still gets paid. Of course, you can book for a shorter date and see if you can extend it but be aware that your escort may have other plans.
If you do have to leave a date early, make sure that your escort is safe to be by themselves where they are. If necessary take them somewhere they can be more comfortable or at least arrange for them to be taken there.
Ask if she would like a review
Currently, there’s no set etiquette on whether or not to review an escort in Mayfair. The simplest way to find out if your escort would like one is to ask. If she does ask for a review, try to be specific about what made the experience good for you. This makes the review more credible.
