I have been a high class escort for nine years. In that time I have slept with – had sex with – over a thousand men. And in that time I have also had three long personal romantic relationships. So, like an expert witness appearing in court, I hope I have established the expert basis for my thoughts about men, sex and relationships.
One thing I need to say at the outset is that I am not a hundred per cent convinced that marriage and monogamy is an especially great idea for women. The only slightly facetiously meant exception is if the man is really rich. On the other hand, if you are just with him because of the money and lifestyle then you are really just exchanging sex for money. And that effectively makes you exactly the same as a woman who escorts Malaga men for sex. If the man in your life is not giving you the benefits of a spendidly luxurious life style, and if he simply ignores you as you do a hundred per cent of the effort and work to keep the relationship on an even keel and sailing on successfully, then what on earth are you actually getting from the relationship? What are you doing with your life?
Maybe you are just staying with your significant other simply so that you can say you are “married”? Let us be honest, you would probably be far better treated if you were single and being courted, wooed and seduced by several men or by a number of men sequentially. And you would undountedly have a lot less unpleasnt work on your hands if you were single again!
You also need to realise just how amazingly insecure the majority of men truly are. You can never give a man enough compliments, admiring looks, gentle touches and unexpected sexual affection. Keep that up, and your man will be putty in your hands. Except, of course when he is wood in your hands!Men need to feel wanted and needed in exactly the same way that women do. But in our society it is not as easy or socially acceptable for men to ask for their needs to be met as it is for women. Women can say when their emotional needs are not being met. Men, alas, express that shortfall through sullen moody silence. As well, of course, as visiting escorts and sex workers where they can have their sexual needs met and just talk to a woman who will listen to them without judgement.
